If you ask me what makes a person lovable, I don't think I can give you a perfect answer.
如果你问一个人如何才能变得讨人喜欢,我觉得我应该给不出完美的答案。
But I have to say that everytime I saw somebody noticing details, I grew fonder of that person.
但我不得不说,每次我发现一个人注意细节的时候,我都会变得更喜欢这个人。
Like when you are on the phone or interacting on social network with them, they don't necessarily response to you imediately everytime but they never make the absence too long for you to feel awkward.
And they never send voice-mail to you when they know you're in the middle of some important occasions or when you're on the subway, because they know that it will make it very inconvenient for you and thattext is the more appropriate choice.
They never let a conversation die, but they know when to stop.
他们从不会让对话冷场,但也知道什么时候该点到为止。
And while they're pretty good listeners, they also have their own mature thoughts and would love to share them if they think the it suits the situation.